What is your preferred approach to meeting other play partners? Do you like apps, going to clubs, going out to bars, or any other means?
We haven’t had much success online and the closest LS club is about 3 hours away. Our life does not accommodate for trips like that and vacations are family vacations. So we have found that our best option is to seek out those around us and hope for the best. We have had some pleasant surprises as well as some definite passes.
Our best results have come from finding a quiet place and just putting that vibe out there. I will give all credit to my wife for being the reason for our success. She has a subtle sexy way that she flirts. It’s very disarming and by the end of the evening we are having conversations with total strangers about all the things we want to do to each other. Due to our limited pool we definitely have more success finding women than men. Couples have been more recent but still limited. We also rotate bars because in our community it’s easy to get labeled quickly.
So what is your preferred approach? Does it work? And if you are limited in your area, do you travel?
Hotel takeovers. Hands down the best experience! No waste of time wondering if there will be in person chemistry or not. Hundreds of options to choose from. It’s just great.
😮 😬 yikes! The ones we have locally are incredibly classy and fun. Upwards of 1500 people and very well run.
Our preferred way of meeting new people is by attending house parties, meet and greets, LS clubs, etc. Too much work having to go through profiles that all sound the same, vetting, and back and forth messaging. We like in person and being able to meet several new people at once, seeing how couples interact with each other, and see everyone’s personalities, which are all difficult things to do through a screen. Sometimes the ones that you’d think would be chatty and outgoing are the ones that are quiet in person with not much to say, so this works best for us!
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