so I am a male single here from midwest, recently met a couple in a dating site, who showed interest about a MFM with me. Then one thing led to another she introduced me to a swingers club which they are a member of, and invited me to join it. Now, it was all virtual taking, then the admins of the group reached out, had some communication to and fro, like an interview, then they agreed to let me in, asked me to pay about 70 dollars for 1 year membership. (its not a big amount so I paid anyways via Paypal). They have been very comunicative and supportive in their language and now we have reached the stage of medical testing before any event, and then they say I am open to join any event . The event club is located in Decataur, I know the address.

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All I want to ask :

I have not done this before, but deep inside me ofcourse I want to. But I am also scared, how do I know if it is all not a scam ? the place Decataur I looked up on internet has a higher crime rate too...what should you guys do

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