This is for both men and women. As the question states when it comes to partners outside of your own, what is your preference on body type? Fit, muscular, dad/mom bod. Tall, short. Hairy, shaved. Old, young. What is it that you gravitate to physically.
I prefer curves and mom bods. I can definitely appreciate a fit bod, but there is something about a curvy woman that gets me going. Also on the shorter side. My wife likes the dad bod. Definitely not overly plus size but someone that likes a good meal. She’s short so height really isn’t her thing.
So if you were to go to a club, either alone or as a couple. Who is getting your attention and possibly more?
We like couples who look like they take care of themselves but also like beer and nachos on the weekend (which is how we would describe ourselves). Somewhere better than average bodies is a good starting point, but “fit” isn’t necessarily a requirement.
For me (F) my preference is good hygiene for everyone involved. I’m not a huge fan of body hair either. For men I prefer guys to be fit-ish. For example you work out but you’re not going to turn down dessert 😂. For women no preference really at all.
My husband prefers petite women but open to others as well. He just has a thing for shorter women. But has played with many taller women too (one was 6’0 lol)!
I don't think I've really put much thought into it. It may be easier to know what body types are a negative for me more than what type of body I am looking for.
So many things factor into my attraction, or willingness to consider further exploration, than body type. So don't have an official body type per se.
I (husband) love short and shapely women the most.
My wife likes tallish 6’ with a muscular body
Willing
We do as well. We have found recently that even the mom/dad bod group can be judgy. It’s changed our vetting process.
We’ve given up on perfection. We’re just asking for normal lol.
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