So we went to a swingers club the other night and it was from 10pm-4am. We got there around 12:30 and it was extremely packed. I mean like 50 couples at least. A lot of people were already fucking when we got there. We got a table, sat down and within 2 minutes another couple was asking us if we want to play. As flattering as it was, part of what we enjoy is having some drinks and getting in the mood and watching first. But this couple was very persistent (friendly but persistent), they were both super hot and I made out with the wife a little bit, but I really feel like if they didn’t walk up to us right as we walked in things may have progressed further. What would your advice be in this situation. Sometimes coming on too strong can be a turn off 😕
Just let them know you just got there and are still warming up. If you are interested in them, just ask them to check back in in a little bit. It’s worked well for us especially in moments when we were in between rounds at the club.
We’re new so this is good to know. Taking notes…!
Totally. Sounds like a good match, they were just more ready for play than you guys were at that time 😊
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For sure. They could have come across as too persistent for your own preferences (or just in general). We tend to prefer the forward couples so they might have worked for us. Now if they weren’t taking a no, that’s a different story.