We recently hosted for two FWB couples we have known for a while and we had a discussion if this is technically an orgy. I never thought about it but at what point is something an orgy, what do you think the definition is? When I think about it, the longer we are swinger the more this definition shifts. So here is what we came up with: four people is a swinger date, five people is a swinger date (usually someone brought a plus one), six people? Well I guess in our case we would have called it a FWB get together. 7 people definetly is an orgy in our book.
An orgy isn’t really a number at all. Ok. There’s some sort of minimum. Probably 5, 6, more. But an orgy is actually more so about the energy. The state of mind. An orgy is carefree. It’s any two people who want to play anyway they like doing it without care for everyone else. It’s a sexual free for all. An orgy is coming home having lost count… 😉
My wife and I did a quiz about fantasies in the beginning, and they defined it this way.
3 people = threesome 4 people = small orgie 5 people = big orgie
I personally think this is quite a good definition
I would say 5 or more, and this is with everyone playing with each other in some capacity. They are lots of fun and can get crazy. The last one I went to there were 3 women, 2 guys, 2 strap ons, some butt plugs, lots of lube and other toys.
7-11 = Orgy minor
12 = Orgy.
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I wouldn’t count that as an orgy. Sounds hot, but not an orgy.