First, I want to say I am genuinely curious about what appeal the lifestyle has for you guys. I am not trolling or casting any shade. What is the draw for you? I would think it easier to meet other singles just like yourself. What about meeting couples appeals to you? I could be wrong but I think it has to be more than just sex. Sex as a single man is easy being a single man in the lifestyle isn't. Please educate me.
Sex as a single man is easy
This is generally false.
Sex is easy for women to find, it is not easy to find as a single man.
Source: We're open in addition to swinging, so I have experience trying to find play as a solo male.
Also you posted this same thing twice.
The group sex angle makes a lot of sense.
That makes a lot of sense. The connections and friendships is a big part for us too.
Ah, the mistake is thinking it's binary. They're not looking at the LS as an alternative, it's in addition to the other ways of trying to get laid.
Do you get I am asking a question? I am not making a statement. I am asking other than sex what is the reason.
You double posted the same exact thing twice at the same time.
Maybe?
I can say that on a Wed/Thurs night in my city, my odds would be better at a lifestyle club than at a bar. Not saying the odds are good, and it's just an anecdote, so it might just be my city or it might be my age.... who knows, i just know that to be true.
Sure, but as I pointed out to someone else, that's assuming that they're doing it instead of regular dating methods....when in reality, this is in addition to trying to get laid elsewhere.
Every single guy that I know that is lifestyle adjacent (i.e. going to the club or parties with swingers) is either currently or actively trying to date and/or hook up outside of the lifestyle too.
Ah, the mistake is thinking it's binary. They're not looking at the LS as an alternative, it's in addition to the other ways of trying to get laid.
Do you get I am asking a question? I am not making a statement. I am asking other than sex what is the reason.
Sex as a single man is easy
This is generally false.
Sex is easy for women to find, it is not easy to find as a single man.
Source: We're open in addition to swinging, so I have experience trying to find play as a solo male.
Also you posted this same thing twice.
You double posted the same exact thing twice at the same time.
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You double posted the same exact thing twice at the same time.
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