Now before you roll your eyes at this title, I’m serious! Haha I’m a 22 yr old woman and I’m very interested in the lifestyle. I’ve had two partners who were interested in it as well but at the time I was too young (most of the clubs close by are 21 ). I’m currently single but want to dip my toe in.

My biggest concern is obviously safety. I want to ensure that I’m not followed upon leaving or forced into anything. So any tips or experiences in that regard are welcome!

Additionally I’m wondering how I could get to know the couples in attendance. Is it as simple as approaching someone? What is the proper etiquette?

I’ve seen some people say to meet up with just one couple first before going to a club but there’s something about more people being around that makes me feel safer.

Okay, if you’ve made it to the end of this post and have decided to impart some wisdom, thank you! I deeply appreciate it and I’ll be sure to send an update after I go for the first time:)