So our journey has been a rollercoaster of amazing moments and disappointing time wasters.

On the whole it’s been great.

The guys we match with are always super eager to meet, the couples not so much as life is even more difficult to plan around four people haha.

Of the two of us the wife doesn’t do much texting or planning and that is perfectly fine. That’s the deal we made.

We are very specific in what we want out this and have very specific desires, filtering out all the noise is a bit much right now haha.

My brain is constantly second guessing every text or thing I say.

Things were so much simpler when we started. Pick a guy we liked. Met up, had fun and more or less moved on.

I think after this month, and hopefully a potential play date coming up, we might take a break from the LS altogether.

How often do you all get burned out or “take a break”.

What rules do you establish for yourselves to not get overwhelmed and burnt out?