Hey everyone I’m looking for a little advice after my GF and I had our first experience in the last week with a couple!

Summary: Our boundaries before were keeping it to parallel play with girl/girl interaction which we did. We didn’t intend fully to play but we clicked well and got invited back to theirs which we accepted. Both of us had fun until she used our code word to leave. We left after about 40 minutes of play because she started to feel a little uncomfortable and a little ashamed. We both talked beforehand on the way and shared excitement, nerves etc and were on the same page. No feelings of jealousy or resentment after the fact, both of us are good and communicating.

She said the other guy in general was a turn off for her because of his hygiene and attractiveness level in person. The hygiene sadly transferred to his GF which soured the girl/girl aspect for her/us.

We’re looking for advice on if it could have just been a one off bad experience? For the women out there, have you been in this scenario? If so did it get better with couples where you all shared attraction? Did making a friendship via a date or two vs fucking on the first date help?

Also if anyone has any advice or podcast recommendations for negative feelings of shame, guilt, etc after the fact they are much appreciated!