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My partner and I have been having lifestyle fun for around two years now. All of our experiences have been great, and there’s hasn’t been really any moment where we felt we were getting over our heads or problems of jealousy.
When we first started we were open to making friends with other couples or singles, but since then we’ve decided we’re really trying to get right into the fun. We’re talking about a couple messages beforehand, and when we meet 5-20mins of conversation before we move it into the bedroom.
We found a potential unicorn who’s a few years younger than us, but she’s only really been interested in messaging the female half of our relationship, and has expressed to both of us that she’s looking to make some new girl friends. She’s been messaging the female half a lot and sending good morning messages every morning. Typically the male half handles all the scouting and he’s able to cut to the chase, but the female half is having a hard time trying to find the words to let her know we’re mostly just looking for sex. What’s a good way to communicate what we’re looking for with her without seeming like we’re just using her?
Yeah I thought it was somewhat common in the lifestyle to meet for sex and nothing else? Everyone we meet with we all want the same thing and when we plan a meeting we plan to have sex. It’s totally nothing against the other people, but we’re just in it for the fun and not looking to make any ties ¯_( ˘͡ ˘̯)_/¯
We want to attend a club or other lifestyle events, but we heard the crowd is generally older as is much of lifestyle people. We’re in our 20’s so the apps are the best way we’ve found to find people around our age
We actually do live pretty close to a McDonalds lol But we generally host at our place and when we meet with others the consensus is always we’re all hooking up that night
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Yeah our profile is pretty thorough and says what we’re looking for from couples, single guys, and single women and also says we’re interested in skipping the dating portion and going straight to the fun. Most people we match with thank us for the transparency, but she must have just not read the profile lol