So a young couple (Mid-20s) just asked me to be their third. So they are completely new to kinks and this will be there first time outside of vanilla. As for me, I have explored many kinks to include 3somes and ENM but this is the first time I will be entering an established relationship.

I have carte Blanche (so far, we do have a video call and drinks before they take me to their bed) on what the scenario is (I can decide if he participates, watches only, or not even be involved).

I really want their first experience outside of vanilla to go really well, and a new experience to add to my lifestyle. So any advice on being a “bull” as well as introducing new people into the lifestyle.