I post here after my wife and I have a night out at a club, mostly cause I have no friends I can talk about it with! We've been swinging for a few years, but due to a dearth of babysitters we don't get to go out that much. A few times a year and that's it!

Last night we went to our usual haunt. This time I was determined to be more proactive and chat to couples - we had a big success (fivesome back at the hotel) the first time we went, but since then we've not had as much luck.

We started in the dungeon. My wife gave me head on the Master's chair and then I bent her over one of the spanking benches and was going wild from behind. One of the cuter single males appeared, so I asked her if she wanted to have a spitroast. She was up for it, so she gave him head while I fucked her. He put on a condom and we swapped sides.... The host was showing two new couples around at this point, so they stayed and we put on a bit of a show. Lots of fun, but we've done this a few times, and I really wanted to do a couple swap. So after a short rest and recharge, we went back to it.

We met a really nice couple, but just because of social dynamics we never found the right time to invite them to play. I'm ok at starting the chat, but never know how to move it into playing. As it was, by the time I'd worked the courage their M was too drunk and they had to go home. But we had really nice kisses with them, and F showed me her ridiculously hot body suit that she had on under her dress. Left feeling really horny and frustrated that I hadn't made the move sooner - they were both really hot and up for it, and we could have finally done a full swap at a club! I usually worry a bit about staying hard, but I got such a boner just kissing that I'm pretty sure I would have been absolutely fine!

Anyway, we swapped numbers and will meet again in the future 🤞. Moral of the story... Don't delay, be forthcoming. It's not creepy to just let someone know that you are interested and would be up for playing if they are too. Don't wait too long or you can miss your chance and end up with regrets!