My hubby is the one mostly responsible for vetting prospective men/couples for our play time. We have tried to use Reddit to connect with others, but found it a bit too unreliable so hubby opened an account on an app. After only a few days, he was messaged by someone who started his message by saying he recognizes us both from our local gym, asking how much I deadlift…
Though I know we’re trying to connect with local swingers, the thought of someone at our gym knowing that we are makes us both a bit uncomfortable. We’re clearly not out to anyone except perhaps my BFF, and we’d like to keep our personal/professional lives separate from our swinging.
How would you deal with this situation? Block and move on?
It’s a bit more than just one App, house parties, hotel events, but in our 3 years in the LS, a breakdown of people oddities: 4 of his co-workers, one worked 2 cubes over, and another is in a weekly meeting A neighborhood couple 2 former dance students of mine 3 parents of former dance students The friend of a friend Two sets of siblings And at least a dozen couples that live within a 10 minute drive radius And we randomly met a couple at a club 2 hours away that lives within that 10 minute drive window
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