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We’re a young 30s couple that exclusively plays with single men. We’ve mostly just been to Secrets, but were wondering if there’s a better place to find quality single men. We’re both fit for lifestyle standards and I look for the same in any potential partner. We love Secrets and always have a great time, but sometimes struggle to find single guys that are fit and vibe well. Ideally, we like places that have a hotel on premises, which is why we usually choose Secrets. We like the social aspect of the club, but the privacy of a room for playing. Are there specific clubs or events that you would recommend based on these criteria?
It’s going to be very difficult at any club or event. Single males really need to stand out, and the age range is much higher than 21. Couples will go down in age for females, but not often males. But as always, being attractive helps. We want guys who we can vibe with and get along with like a friend. Don’t like guys who are overly sexual right away or braggy guys. Apps like feeld or maybe tinder would probably work best.
Thanks! We’ve looked at Caliente, but Paradise Lakes hasn’t really been on our radar. Will look into it. We sort kind of thought it skewed much older. Our age range is roughly 25-45.
The only place we know well is Secrets in Kissimmee. It seems pretty good for single males.
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Probably wouldn’t have gone down to 21, honestly.