Here's something I haven't seen discussed here. Interested in feedback. If you're queasy about medical stuff, go on to the next post lol.

So a couple years ago, after getting to the point where I couldn't pass urine at all, I had a prostate procedure called a TURP done. In addition to enabling me to pee, the operation had an effect of redirecting the semen into the bladder rather than into a vagina or someone's pretty face.

I still have orgasms, maybe even stronger than before, but not a drop comes out. No cum. No shooting 5-day loads. No creampies.

In my searches for couples online for mmf threesomes (my passion) this issue has often been a dealbreaker. I'm always upfront as we chat and stuff because that's the right thing to do, but it gets frustrating. Is the cum really such a big deal in swinging? I don't remember it as such, and I've been in and out of the lifestyle for decades. I guess it's a thing.

Couples out there, would you meet with a man who didn't ejaculate? Would that ruin everything? Be a dealbreaker? Seems to me that threesomes are a whole lot of things and that a couple teaspoons of male semen shouldn't be so important that you lose a good opportunity. I do have partners for whom it's not a problem, so I'm not too upset, but it is frustrating.

Thanks and keep swingin'!

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