What a fun progression we have been on. Last week we had a chance to go to a nudist, lifestyle resort and hangout in the hottub with those in the Lifestyle. We even met another older couple who lived near us and exchanged numbers. We are chatting with other couples and really having fun with it all.

We are interested in all types of couple play including full swap with the right couples. Right now our hesitancy is health and safety. We were married 20 years ago and we were both virgins. We have never had to worry about diseases, pregnancy (vasectomy) and such. We understand that many are tested frequently and always use condoms.

Would like to hear all your thoughts on how you have chosen to play safely. The thought of frequently testing for disease does not sound appealing. What have you found that works for you? What are your stories, the good, the bad and the naaastty? What approach would you recommend? Thanks!