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We’re a couple who plays exclusively with single males, so there’s definitely a market. Unfortunately, supply is much higher than demand. We both have to have a good connection with you, which is tough. Anyone that uses terms like bull, or who comes off bragging or degrading to my husband is an automatic no. This eliminates at least 80 percent of the single guys out there. Then I have to find you attractive enough, which is also tough. Of the 20% left, 90% of those would be eliminated here. This means that out of a hundred single guys, I’d probably consider sleeping with two of them. It sucks for guys, but it’s just the way it is. You’ve really got to stand out from the rest. Working on yourself is really the best thing you can do to increase the odds. As a fit couple in our young 30’s, we can choose just about any single guy at a club we want, but usually don’t find anyone. If you can somehow manage to be one of those 2%, you’ll have a lot of luck.

You are experienced in the lifestyle. Has that been in a couple or exclusively as a single male? I only ask because if you have been on the couple side of the equation you would understand your competition. Make a honest assessment of what makes you not only good but exceptional . Are you a "type" something people fantasize about? Such as do you have a great body, tall, super handsome bigger than average dick etc? The reality is women are approached by tons of guys. It easy to get exed out before they get to know anything great about you that deeper than the surface.