52 yo Single Male, used to be with someone in the lifestyle, loved it! However it didn’t work out (she was 20 yrs younger…lol) ;)

Since then, I’ve moved to a different part of the country, so I can’t just go to some of our regular events as a trustworthy single male because I know the hosts or others.

I would like to find someone for dating and maybe a relationship who’s either already in, open to, the lifestyle.

Problem is single men are like the plague on most lifestyle sites, or when it comes to events or parties. Conventional sites are hard enough without throwing out the “open to the lifestyle” question.

How can I put myself out there to find single women to actually date…then throw in the lifestyle component? Whether it be on lifestyle sites, or actually attending parties or events?

I want to make it clear I’m not just trying to get laid! I’m looking to meet friends, male and female, as well as someone (a lover) to be with!

What I loved about being in the lifestyle was the TYPE of people!

Everyone so laid back and fun, but mature, not out of control, and friendly! You’re probably going to have a fun and crazy time, but you’re not going to end up in jail the next day! The playtime was always just a great icing to most nights! I miss that!

Advice? Thoughts? Thank you!