Hey everyone,

I (M23) would like to get some advice on a topic that's been on my mind lately regarding my relationship with my girlfriend (F22). We've known each other for years, and recently, we've been exploring our intimate fantasies together.

One fantasy that came up in conversation was the idea of trying an MFM threesome. We both agreed that we're interested, but we want to approach it cautiously and ensure it's a positive experience for both of us. We've decided that we don't want to involve anyone we know, so we're considering finding an experienced foreigner during our upcoming vacation abroad to join us for our first time.

I've always been excited about the idea of seeing my girlfriend with a well-endowed stranger, and she's expressed her desire for it too. However, we're unsure about how to find a reliable person with a good medical record in a foreign country (in Europe). We're also not interested in attending swinger parties/clubs or orgies, nor do we want to pick up a random guy in a club.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? How did you navigate finding a trustworthy third party for a threesome, especially abroad? We were thinking about hiring a male escort. We're hesitant about using dating apps like Tinder. It's important to note that we're only interested in the sexual aspect from the third person. As soon as he finishes, we would ask him to leave. Neither of us desires to maintain contact the guy afterward. We only want sex and we have no interest in engaging in conversations or interactions unrelated to that aspect (even during the encounter). We're new to this, so we'd feel awkward keeping in touch after that. At the moment it's just about the experience for us.

Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.