I’m very interested in seeing what a lifestyle environment is like. Never been to one before mostly because I’ve never had a partner that wants to try it with me and I feel like it would be weird to roll in solo as a guy. The more I’ve researched it though, it seems that single males are not as uncommon or discriminated against as I thought? I’m curious…

1) if there is a good venue locally that allows single men (looks like Shadows is one?)

2) is the vibe inside receptive to single guys? Not trying to be a pariah for the night

3) what’s the vibe re protection/stds? And are people generally clean? I’m very clean and have never had an std. One of the reasons I’ve held off pursuing this is a fear of exposure to some of the more common and less preventable ones like herpes. Really don’t want to get anything so if that is common, it may not be for me.

4) what are the people like? I have a feeling I will be in the younger end (I’m late 20s) but idk how much older average will be. I’m a white 6’ 180lb pretty attractive in shape guy…would I be like par for the course or how would I stack up?

I’m not going in expecting to be a major participant or anything, I just really want to see what it’s like and if there’s a vibe with someone then I’ll take it as extra. Would love to hear any advice or insights into what I can expect and how I can make it a good experience for me and everyone else.