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Hello all!
Iām new to this but have been admiring the lifestyle for a while. I (26F) have always been super sex positive and willing to try new things. My fiancĆ© (29M) and I have a decent sex life but definitely enjoy when we spice things up. We are big fans of hotel rooms, new outfits and role play. We respect each otherās boundaries and talk everything out together, but no matter how many times I go over the conversation in my head, I donāt know how to bring up the idea of swinging. The idea excites me and I honestly believe it would excite him too, but I fear he will push back out of concern for what his friends and conservative family would think if they ever found out.
So I guess Iām looking for ways to bring up the idea and how to tread lightly to make this conversation go well!
i've seen other suggest this site - which independently interviews you and shows you only where you match:
First, he may instantly feel like you just want to fuck random guys and he isnāt āenoughā. Thats natural, so donāt worry about it. There isnāt any real way to break the idea easily, so just be honest and be humble and tell him how you would like to try this for the BOTH of you. Then, ask him to learn about it with you by listening to the many great podcasts out there
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