I'll keep this short, just looking for some encouragement and advice. I was a single guy 8 years ago and got into swinging. Met great people and had lots of fun. I was on SLS.

As of today I am married, no kids and my wife has said she wants a three way. I has only been said after a few drinks. There has never been much said about it.we have an adventurous sex life. ( toys swings and making a sex room) I made a joke about porn and she said she watches some lesbian porn. I plan on telling her I would like a three some also. With a male or female is fine with me. Should I tell her I was a swinger before we met? Should we start with same room sex with another couple? I'm thinking a mfm might be a good first option. Any advice or pit falls to avoid would be great.