Just wondering how long after sending a message it becomes safe to assume that you’re not getting an answer. Also, when nou get a message, would you usually at least check out the profile, or it’s normal that the person wouldn’t even bother?
Some people are notification ON, some are OFF. Before I respond, I check the profile for previous posts, comments and date joined.
Typically I respond right away or after chatting with my partner, but always same day. I can tell you from experience most in this LS are not like that for whatever reason.
& There are so many scammers everywhere, I want verification within second round of chats or I'm out. No exceptions.
Ya gotta actively temper all expectations in the LS.
Dunno, not on them. But chats are a thing on Reddit and people respond on a crazy timeline, not your expectation of a timeline.
Still applicable. We're all hunting regardless of the site.
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We require pictures of the couple holding a sign with their Reddit username on it. We do this at the first picture exchange and chat. It has ended conversations more than it has actually verified people