Some people don't care how "respectful" you are.

My suggestion is discipline yourselves to READ the entire post that someone puts up prior to responding.

There are plenty of details that can be answered if you use your grade 9 level reading comprehension skills.

I can't speak enough on how frustrating it is when we put up a post stating EXACTLY what we are looking for, what we are into, complete with photos, as well as the expressed need for verification with ALL strangers prior to playing. Yet, we still get the: "hey" "what yall into?" "Seeing what it is you're looking for" "wondering if you'd be interested in a solo M, respectful " "I need pics first". It's the biggest waste of time on both of our parts. This could all be solved if you took the time to UNDERSTAND what a couple is looking for based off of what they post. It's not hard to type a few more sentences in your initial message too so we're not droning on about the same stuff a dozen times.

You will have more success and far less rejection if you go this route. There are definitely posts with couples seeking single males, go and seek those out instead of blindly responding to the ones looking for everything BUT that.

If you see NO SINGLE MALES in a post, chances are, you are NOT the exception.
And if you think you are, you better blow them away with your first impression.