My wife of 11 years and I have been talking about dipping our toes into the lifestyle. Over the last year we have been talking more and more about trying new things. We went on vacation a few months ago and went to a clothing optional beach. The first day there my wife took her top off and I kept my swimming suit on the next two days I was feeling very comfortable and decided to go all in and she joined. At first I was a little nervous about others seeing me and judging me but as time went on I started to loosen up. My wife and I spent 3 days on that beach and really loved how we felt. When we got home we started talking more seriously about the lifestyle and trying a threesome to see how we feel about that and decide where we want to go from there.

We are hoping to get some advice on how to go about finding another woman to have join us and also maybe some experiences or things to expect? Also maybe some ways that others of started the process but make sure each other are comfortable with the pace of how things are going?

Any advice is greatly appreciated.