We are married couple 43m and 38f from a very conservative background. We are married for 12 years now and have kids in elementary school age. We both are educated and successful in career. We are having average sex life.

Just before pandemic starts I came to know about this lifestyle. As an immigrants to US this was a shock for me initially. I have told my wife same and was a shock for her too. I never thought we would ever try for it. But years passed and we both opened up and started to look life more ease.

A couple of years ago this thought again came into my mind and I started to read about it and felt interested. I told same to her and her initial reaction was a big 'NO'. But last year it's came again into our conversation but she didn't say anything immediately. But she joined me to read about it occasionally. A couple of weeks ago while we talking about many things this also came. I asked her can we try to understand it. Two weeks ago she told let's try to understand but not sure want to try or not.

We are scared to discuss this with our friends who are all from same culture and beliefs.

We would like to here from couples about their journey into lifestyle.

We want to keep this descreate and looking for some good friendship and ideas to understand same. We are looking for friendship with couples who have good patience and respect.

We are non smoking non drinkers. Never been to clubs or bars.

After lot more discussion now we want to visit a club for our first time in DFW Texas.
What would be the best club for first time visit. For the first time visit what should be a better attire for both. We prefer to visit on a Couple nights.