is it a turn off to you (as a couple), when a single male profile says something to the nature of..."mostly looking for other single women, but would entertain the right couple"?
i am a little insecure. but, i just meant turn off in terms of move on or not. retitle my post to "move on or not?" or "is this a red flag?" and i think we're saying the same thing. i didn't mean it like it made me cry or lose sleep or made me emotionally sad. poor wording on my part maybe.
because this person is actively, and predominantly, looking for a female partner in the LS. my wife fits that description....a female in the LS. would he attempt to pursue her and make her his partner? i trust my wife but that obviously could lead to less the desirable experiences.
the converse of this, someone who is married but playing solo (with permission) - gives me comfort they are not going to attempt to poach.
i know neither of these are sure bets, but its just the feeling i tend to get. kinda. i don't know. i'm torn. its why i threw it to the group to see other opinions.
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well, and please don't burn me to the ground reddit - but i get the feeling this might be the kind of person that tries to poach your wife when you aren't looking.