My apologies if this has been posted before. I searched and couldn't find anything other than poaching really. If there is one out there, I'd appreciate it if someone could point me in the right directions.

Our city's LS community is very large and mostly close, but there are also a lot of "outsiders". This is a good thing. Meet more people, play with new people, etc. However, with those outsiders comes the shady tactics people try to use.

Other than poaching, I've seen things like drive by gropings, feeding booze and drugs to get someone too drunk to resist, the "hall pass" guy, bait and switch poaching (where the female from the other couple suddenly remembers she's on her period..but her husband can still play with your woman), etc.

What are some you know about to keep an eye out for?