Just thinking loud here. My wife (34F) and I (38m) were exclusively involved with another couple (44M and 44F). They were open swingers as in meeting other couples and attending parties while we were only seeing them. I am personally interested in expanding our circle and including more people but my wife but my wife says that three lovers in her life are enough. She is extremely attracted to the other woman and her occasional fantasies of being served by two dicks are already being met.
This other wife suggested that they have a party coming up and she can take me there instead of her husband if it would be okay with my wife. I asked her and she said "Sure. come back and tell me about it but I am staying."
So I am thinking that this is the first time I will be playing without my wife, accompanying another swingers wife as her man to a party. At this point, all parties seem willing but would this be a good move?
Your wife gave the blessing. So go and have fun. Check in with your wife from time to time so that she doesn’t feel excluded. It will make her feel that she is still on your mind.
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Your date's safety.
You're in an odd position of being her male companion, but not being her husband...but you still have to look out for her as much as her husband would, just without being able to represent yourself as her actual partner.