Threw a party last weekend, and realised that throwing a swingers party just solves all the vanila party problems:

• People show up on time. They want to get to know others and follow the vibe. Weird to arrive when everyone is already in different variations of nakedness.
• Nobody is dumb enough to discuss politics.
• People don't mind chipping in for a more luxury setting.
• Those that don't show up have a valid reason. Not just "couldn't be bothered to get my ass of the couch". And they know they missed a great party. You may relish in their FOMO.
• Talking about kids is done after 5 minutes, instead of 50.
• No idiot drunks, people want to play.
• Everyone leaves on time, they are way to exhausted by the end of the night.
• You get requests to throw another party within days.