First off, I’ve always thought my wife was attractive. Thats why I started chasing her years ago. Anyway that being said we’ve been in the lifestyle for 1.5 years. My wife is constantly getting compliments and admiration from guys and girls about how attractive she is. That being said, I on the other hand am not a bad looking dude. I cannot grow a full beard but a decent goatee. I only mention that because beards seem to be all the rage right now. I’m not overweight or anything like that. Also worth mentioning, my wife and I only play solo. We’ve found that works best for us. Now onto my question. Assuming you want a guy…Does a guy having an extremely hot wife deter you from being interested in him? I get interested females don’t get me wrong, but it’s hard to find ones that I’m interested in that are also interested in me. As a follow up to my question what determines your attraction towards a guy in the lifestyle? Is it looks, matching dynamics, reputation or personality? Just looking for some tips to help me because my wife is getting more than enough attention for the both of us.