I have always been curious what it would be like to give head. I don't think I am the only guy that has thought about. The biggest barrier is that I don't find men, men's bodies or masculinity attractive. Yet a nice big hard cock looks hot. I know it makes zero sense but it just is what. it is.
I have been in a few play scenarios where my dick has been close to another guys face and vice versa. I might be reading the room completely wrong but it looked like they wanted it or want to do it. Is this a common fantasy? Does this happen in the lifestyle?
I have no issue with being Gay , Bi or other. The labels don't matter to me.
Being a bottom is a whole different level than just sucking a dick.
I am not really worried about it being gay or not. It just something that seems like it would be exciting to do.
Pretty much. I was largely oblivious and didn't even think it was something I wanted till a SM took the lead during a 3sum with the wife and I. Since then I've been a lot more cognizant of 'hints' being dropped during play.
Another hint way before you get to the play stage is when they work the word "open" into their profile...
Yup! It's all in the moment and not every cock. It really needs to be impressive big and fat.
Exactly, I have zero desire beyond oral. I don't want to kiss or even really touch anything by the dick.
Yeah, I would think a lot of wives are not cool with it.
Pretty much. I was largely oblivious and didn't even think it was something I wanted till a SM took the lead during a 3sum with the wife and I. Since then I've been a lot more cognizant of 'hints' being dropped during play.
Another hint way before you get to the play stage is when they work the word "open" into their profile...
I think if there wasn’t a stigma around it would happen a lot. I think a lot of guys want to try it.
I think in this context men identify as straight because what bi implies to a lot of people. When I see bi on a profile I think they want way more than I do. I don't want to kiss, touch or fuck. Its just not what interest me. Also sucking or being suck isn't something I would want most of the time. None of the men of the couples I have played with I wanted to do it with. I feel like to put in my profile I was bi would be super misleading.
The question was about how common the act was. Nothing about whether someone or the act is gay, straight, bi or other. I personally would never do something to someone without their consent.
With bi guys do they expect more than just oral?
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I am kinda new. I have only been swinging for about a year and half. Before swinging I had never even been in a room with another hard dick. Now if we go to a club I will find myself saying hmm that is a nice dick a few times a night.