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I only created my SLS about a month ago and was flooded with single guys. At first I chatted and started talking to two on Kik (I now stay away from single guys unless I reach out to them) both just wanted to send dick pics and ask to see my boobs along with they hey how was your day. I don’t send nudes. During the conversations I came to realize both were married and just cheating. That’s a big no for me in Lifestyle so not knowing the best course of action I ghosted them. Blocked them on SLS and just deleted their messages without reading them. Weeks later still getting messages every few days that I just delete. Get the hint! But how do you guys handle this when you find out someone is lying? Neither ever made a point to actually see me just well my schedule is tough and kids blah blah it might be a random Friday night.
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We don’t give out our cell numbers either until we meet in person and agree we want to move forward.
Telegram works best for us, and ask for video verification. There’s no sure fire was to weed out married cheaters right away, but they’re usually dumb enough to give themselves away pretty quickly. Trust your intuition and don’t let these clowns ruin your fun!