So I’m fairly new to LS. Bf been in it for 3 decades at least. I have been enjoying it. But what I am starting to see over and over is that he talks and says things to women the he says to me that I thought he was talking me so that I am the special one. How is it special to me when he repeats it to all women ?

He thinks I am jealous. That’s not how I am seeing it. Hell I LOVE watching him bang other women and such. It’s his words that he uses to praise and make them feel good or special.

Is it too much to ask that he keeps some respect to me and not tell every woman the same things that he says to me, his “special woman”? We have communicated about this but he doesn’t understand my perception that when he uses all the same lines on every woman that it makes me perceive that there isn’t any one special woman to him when he is sexual. Every one is basically a f**k.

Don’t get me wrong, he treats me well. He makes me feel nice and he is always praising me. But if he praises everyone the same way, am I really that special?

I want to reiterate I’m not jealous. I just don’t want to be made to feel like I’m not a special F**k to him. I’m just any one of the women.

Or am I just overreacting? TIA.