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How to be a good unicorn?
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Not new to LS but new to being a unicorn. I’m super friendly and outgoing. I make it clear I’m not looking for poly and I’m not trying to poach your man. Met up with one couple after messaging the husband all week. The day after he is blowing me up all day then her and I texted a little then crickets. He has been making excuses. Texted with another husband said his wife was excited to meet me. Went to a meet and great she was icy and cold towards me. He messaged me for a few days after. I told him I didn’t think his wife likes me. He said “they haven’t had a chance to talk about it” yeah ok dude you want to bang me she either doesn’t like me or doesn’t like LS. I don’t know the rules how should a unicorn act? I’ve met a third couple had fun keep texting the wife only as she is cool as hell and that seems to be going well. I just want to make some friends and have some sex. Give me tips and pointers. Can’t stand the single guys they are just assholes towards me like they are doing me a favor.

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Respectfully, that rule might eliminate some otherwise very fun couples! As the male half, I do about 99% of the vetting of couples/singles before getting my wife involved. Once we get to that point, she’s engaging and happy to be a part of the conversation.

I VERY much realize that there are plenty of men trying to unknowingly coerce their wives into a threesome, so I totally understand your rule. But once we get beyond an initial attraction, I really try to find out if your personality and values are going to align with ours before I add my wife. Five messages usually isn’t enough for me to make that determination, but a week is inappropriate. Shouldn’t take more than a day IMO.

At the end of the day it’s your rule and your choice!

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That tracks. I’m sure your intuition goes a long way in making that determination! No one bats 1.000 but if you’re anything like me, as soon as doubt starts to creep in, you’re out. Better safe than sorry, especially as a unicorn.

Have a good one!

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