So, wife and I are new to the lifestyle. We haven’t done anything yet, but almost 2 years of conversation, role play, and open honest communication between us. We finally decided to try “noobs night” at intimate times in Edmonton, this Friday or Saturday. As much research as we’ve done, we’re unsure of what to expect. I’m expecting to have great conversation in a judgement free club. We have both agreed that a soft swap, or just her swapping would be about the extent of it. She is unsure about doing a full swap and allowing me to play with anyone but her. I guess my main question is, Do couples actually get together here and swap right at the clubs private area? Or is it more to meet up and exchange information/develop relationships/friendships?