My wife an I recently got into the lifestyle. We have gone to a hotel party and went on a dinner date with a couple but we haven't swapped yet. My wife has some confidence issues about her body that started long before I ever met her. She has some extra skin on her belly from having kids she as never lost, so she has some curves.... which I think are sexy. For reference, she is about 5'4" and about 170lbs. She knows I think she is sexy and attractive, but what are some creative ways I can help her? I think at this point she needs to know others find her sexy besides me. We have a profile on a swingers site and we get messages. I am thinking I might post and ad on Doublelist or someplace for a single guy for her to take me out of the equation so she can see guys find her attractive.... good idea or bad? I also thought about posting some pics on some of the sub reddits so she could see what others say. I am hesitant to do the last one, because I have seen some ignorant remarks when ladies post pics. Thoughts? Ideas?