Hi all. Me and my gf had one of the best times at a party yesterday. We both vibe on the same level and she is a very submissive slut and is often the life of the party.

I'm used to guys and gals playing with her and since we're very open minded- we usually let loose and have a ton of fun.

We've been on the lookout for couples or single females that have a similar chemistry. So we'll pay attention to those who play well with others- respectful, inquire about boundaries, and safe.

I have been in uncomfortable situations though, where we will swap partners that I'm not really feeling or are not really feeling me. That's fine and I like to watch her be sexy and do her thing.

Yesterday was a similar situation and I have some mixed feelings about what happened so I'd like to get some input.

I usually cut people a bit of slack but I'll take notice of potential misgivings. In this instance, I assume the couple didn't realize she was with me since I was playing with another beautiful lady. But they showed very little interest in us prior to this. However, they made a move on my gf while I was pleasing the other lady. I was trying to get my girlfriend to join in when I turned around and was very surprised this couple had moved in on her so quickly because it felt like they did it when my back was turned. Fine, maybe I'm overreacting, so I just made room for them and scooted so they could join us on the bed. At this point, I just figured it was the flow of things as things were hot and heavy and like I mentioned, maybe they didn't realize we were together.

I checked in and she was okay so I was okay but now I paid them a little more attention.

Fun times continued for a bit but when we took a small breather we discussed what happened. We decided to continue playing. The couple saw us return- and once again, I felt it happened when they saw me occupied- they made a move on her. This time they tried to drag her to play solo with her in another room. This was starting to feel like a poaching. I firmly asked that they play in the same room and they, (maybe I'm paranoid at this point?) reluctantly agreed.

The final straw for me was when they brought out a box of toys to play with her. Again, I was playing nearby and was very excited to see her get fucked. Everyone was caught up in the moment. I asked to use their box of toys and use one for my play partner. The toy I selected had some lube and hair on it straight out of their toy box. Okay, maybe that one was unlucky. I grabbed another. Covered in old lube. My stomach turned and I was done. I asked them to stop playing and remove the toy they were using on her.

They were apologetic, but I was upset which is a rarity for me.

I don't know if I overreacted and whether I was capable objective decision making with them after I was caught off guard the first time. I mean, maybe they weren't trying to poach her and maybe the toys I selected just had some lube spill on them. They wanted to exchange information afterwards, but I had to decline even though by conventional standards, they were attractive and fun.

I'd love to hear your thoughts and suggestions for now and future times. I'm thinking about discussing verbal consent from me prior to playing.