My partner and I have been in the lifestyle since we got together and both of us were prior to meeting each other for a decade.

We have been attending parties and events but recently, I’ve been turned off by how “easy” the crowd of people I’ve been involved with are.

No one seems to want to connect with one another, just straight to business. It makes me wonder…. Am I being a snob?

For example, I went to a house party and a new couple struck up a convo with us. They were very nice and we talked for maybe 5 minutes before they said “How about we take this to the bedroom”. Something about that was a turn-off. We declined and they were in the bedroom 5 mins later with another couple.

Is this something that bothers some of you too?? I remember a lot of lifestylers wouldnt even make it to the bedroom until the second meeting!