We met up with a couple and had really good chemistry all around. We decided to go back to their house where we started playing. It was going to be full swap in the same room, it started with making out and oral. My wife and him moved quicker to actual penetration. Protection was used but he had premature release, it was honestly a few seconds maybe 3-4 pumps. They never discussed this ahead of time with us and we were not sure what to do since his wife and I were just about to start. We asked if he was ok with us moving forward and he said he wasn’t comfortable with us doing that. We talked for a bit and were about to head out when he asked us to try again because he was hard again.

My wife is attracted to him and thought maybe it was just nerves the first time so she agreed to give it another shot. We get going again and I started easing into his wife and heard him say sorry I am done. Again he lasted only a few pumps, he asked us again to stop but his wife was insisting we keep going. My wife and I have an agreement that if anyone shows discomfort we stop. My wife and I got dressed left and had a fun time together when we got home ourselves.

They have messaged us a few times apologizing saying it has never happened before and they want to meet again. We told them that if we do meet again that everyone has to be on the same page and if one couple is done sooner then the other couple can still proceed. They agree to that but part of me thinks we will get there and relive that situation again. Again, my wife and I are very attracted to the other couple and are thinking maybe me and his wife should start sooner and my wife prolongs oral/foreplay or if that would be just too weird. We are kind of torn, anyone run into this?