This mostly partains to our experience with meeting people on online apps. But my wife and I have passed on more than one couple because they're too attractive.
To explain, we have nothing against anyone being hot of course. It's what we're in the lifestyle for to meet hot people! But I find that if a couple look like Ken and Barbie with the 6 pac abs, no body fat, and every pic is Instagram worthy we find ourselves like "nope theor expectations are unrealistic" and don't even bother
Just curious if anyone else has done the same
I think everyone has a “range” and outside that people get passed over. We’re not a “fit” couple but, health wise are better than most in our age demographic (in the Midwest at least) we bypass people with “fit” in their profile. We don’t want body Nazis
We’ve been told more than once by couples that “they were surprised we would be interested since we’re so fit” which we don’t see.
We love all kinds of body types, especially if we vibe.
I don't bother with people who have "fit" in their name or say they are looking for other fit people. My husband and I have very normal looking bodies. I have noticed, at the club, that the women are a lot more picky about looks than the men are. A lot of the men, even the really hot ones will fuck pretty much any woman who gives them some attention.
All the time.
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