Very quick question based on our first mixed play experience in a club . We're a couple and initiated play with 2 single guys. We are very new into the LS but I wondered if this kind of action is common.

The 2 guys were playful with me and my GF but sometimes in a shitty way like pinching nipples, slapping ass cheeks, pushing her head deeper than she wanted, biting and sucking nipples too hard etc.

Every time something like that happened we both made it clear that's not ok and we carried on in a more gentle and fun way and they did listen.

Is it usual for guys to jump straight into that kind of play? I'd never assume that a girl I'd just met wanted me to pinch her hard or hold her head down.