As we all know, we are at our best sexually at 1am after 4-5 drinks (heavy sarcasm noted). If a mid-40s couple were to note on their profile that their preference was sober/daytime or early evening play followed by dinner/drinks after, would you see that as a positive or negative?
100% positive and I’ve said the same thing many times. Don’t drink then fuck. Fuck then drink. These people want to get shitfaced and then hook up at 2 am. No thanks.
Positive for sure. I don’t like hooking up with people whose mental state is chemically altered and when people have kids and careers, you have got to get it in where you can fit it.
We also prefer daytime play. We do still have a couple drinks during the play date though.
I think it’s a positive that they are down for day time fun. More energy, don’t have to drive home super late/potentially spend the night. Just works better for us. We don’t function well after 1am 😅.
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