My bf of 9 years and I have discussed threesomes FFM or FMF since we first started dating. It’s something we’ve both always been very into. We’ve never come across the experience but have decided to actually actively try to bring this lifestyle into our lives. Now.. 1) I don’t know if I would call myself a cuckqueen or not? I fit every bit of the description besides the desire to be humiliated. Though I do enjoy degradation from my bf 😉 What exactly would people in the LS consider me? I want to be clear in communication when meeting people. 2) I want to find a woman that we are truly FWB with. I want someone I would enjoy hanging out with who shares the same energy and vibes as us. Someone who would enjoy being with us together and also separately. Maybe a girlfriend I could really hang with just us girls, shopping/getting coffee or what have you. But also I would be open and excited to have my bf be alone with her too. But I need to especially hear about it later if it’s spicy 🥵🥰 3) We’re in the Midwest and I don’t know if we have many options? I tried Fet and was very clear on what we were looking for but just got men trying to contact me 🙄 The two apps I tried said I needed to pay to chat with members. Is it worth paying? Where do we start?? And 4) I’ve read about the symbols that secretly communicate the LS and got an upside down pineapple charm for my purse. I also read that black rings on our right hand are a signal? Is that well known and common? Any other sort of discrete symbols that give off the vibes we’re looking to? Thank you so much 🙏🏻 Hopefully I used correct etiquette and terminology! If not, I’m new and sorry!