I have noticed a significant trend of couples coming into the lifestyle being more open to not using protection, which I don't understand. We have always had this requirement, and only play with couples with similar requirements. But this trend seems to be continuing, and we don't understand it. Curious what other experienced lifestyle people are seeing and thoughts on it...
We test on the reg. Couples we don’t know we always use protection.
Couples we’ve gotten to know. Testing cycle, birth control alternatives in place we play raw. God it feels so much better.
We prefer mfm but generally don't like condoms. We prefer to go bareback. We don't just fuck anyone but understand there is an element of risk involved anytime you have sex with multiple partners. The only truly safe sex is true monogamy or abstinence.
Not sure there is a trend. Literally everyone out there prefers bare, and through time you're simply being exposed to people with a higher risk tolerance than yourself.
There is a serious lip service played to condoms that seems to be in place because it's "the right thing to do" but our own experience tells us if one side doesn't bring it up, the other side probably wont.
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