So my wife (38) and me (39) have flirted around the idea of bringing others in for a while. A lot of has been dirty talk and watching porn (we’re both bi and open to each other about it), but we’ve never taken the first step

Recently we were visiting some friends who said they have been living the lifestyle for a while. I could see my wife excited to talk about it and I was too

We went to a bar after and she said she’d want to be with another girl with me and she’d want to watch me with another guy, but that she wasn’t interested in being with another guy. Tbh that’s something I want

How do I know if she was just saying that because she was nervous or if she really means it?

I don’t want to pressure her but there has definitely been some dirty talk where she said she wanted it