3rd strike. Ambiguous mod bots and rules are awesome.thank you Reddit.

Hi all, we tried and found SLS sucks ass with the abundance of single guys and local people we know in the wrong context, not to mention the basic app bugs. We’re in a rural area and that doesn’t help.

Saratoga / Albany are of NY is home for us. Eastern to central NY, western Mass, Vermont, northern NY are all our practical stomping grounds.

We’re interested in exploring more but struggling to find the right forum. Toronto and Ontario seem amazing but we’re too far away to make it practical even once a year. Reddit searches bring us to subs that are flooded with single guys and dick pics. Facebook is just clickbait unless you have a specific page to search for. We’re family people with kids so online initial meeting is most practical.

We’re stuck. Any advice is welcome. 47M/41F for reference, both straight. Looking for where to even meet like minded people. Dual interest is a plus, casual friends are just as attractive as people looking for fuck friends. Not looking to complicate existing relationships or involve work, whether there’s any sex or not.