Hubs and I have only been in one situation on vacation around 5 years ago and met another couple at a topless pool. I wasn’t really into the guy but the girl was okay. At the end of the day we ended up not going forward with anything although it was obvious that the other couple was down to play. Since then, hubby and I have talked about the experience and what we would/wouldn’t be okay with if we were to be in that situation again. I don’t see us going on a website and searching for an experience but also don’t feel like it’s safe to hook up randomly with strangers. We both agree that we wouldn’t do it with another couple that we knew or were friends with due to our jobs/family in our small community. So, I guess I’m looking for advice from someone who has been in our position at one point and just advice/tips for couples who are curious about the lifestyle.