Alright guys, the wife and I played with two single dudes this past weekend and you all seem to need a road map drawn for you, so here's how these two dudes pulled it off.

We met the first gentleman, Carl, back in Oct with his GF. Nice people, but she had some sexual hang-ups that meant she wasn't a good fit for the LS. There was palpable chemistry between all four of us, but it wasn't going anywhere. We made plans for dinner, but we had to cancel on them, and then everyone got busy with the holidays. Carl reached out to tell us that they had broken up but remained on good terms. A few weeks later, he asked if we'd be interested in meeting, and I responded that maybe we'd run into him at the local club.

This past Saturday Carl showed up to the club. We chatted with him briefly, wife gave him a kiss, and then we went back to the couple we were talking to. Carl walked over to two very attractive single women and started chatting with then. He's tall, handsome, fit, and personable, and one of the ladies took a liking to him. Two hours later, the four of were in a bed, having a great time.

On Saturday we also played with Kevin at the club. He's a regular who is an expert in spanking and flogging. The wife wanted a little impact play earlier in the evening and Kevin lent his expertise. He was incredibly respectful of both of us, proved himself to be trustworthy, and clearly knew his way around women's bodies. Later in the evening when he asked to join my wife and I, it was an easy decision and the guy delivered.

If you're a single man who wants in to this lifestyle because you think it'll be easy to get laid, you're crazy. We've had close to 1000 men try to meet us through Reddit, Kasidie, and our club site. It's harder than a dance club or singles bar, and if you're not smooth in those environments, good luck in the lifestyle.

Be exceptional, bring your A game, and hope things fall into place for you.