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Why do people do this? I find it really creepy when I get a FB friend request from a fellow swinger I met irl. I mean, all they know is my first name and the general vicinity of where I live. Why are they searching me online? It kind of freaks me out, tbh.
Yes, I have a couple people that we've played with on my Facebook, but that's because we've gotten to know each other and formed a relationship. I just think it's weird when you've met someone one time and not given them your phone number or your last name, and they're searching you online.
I need it for my business. I run ads regularly, and you have to have a personal profile in order to have a business page. My FB also has my family on it, and it looks completely innocent and vanilla.
I don't give anyone my real phone number.
Yes, I believe that algorithms do cause a lot of "people you may now" suggestions, but this one was too weird. And by the way, just because I question one thing doesn't mean that the lifestyle isn't for me. My husband and I are enjoying it very much.
Okay well, these particular people met me at a hotel takeover, and I didn't have my phone on me. We also never exchanged phone numbers or last names, so.....
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Ironically, I just realized that that couple gave us fake names at the Takeover. Now I see their real names on their Facebook friend request LOL
Yes, that's how I feel about it!